Thrifting to save my budget!

When I was a young girl I remember my mom would drag us to thrift stores anytime were were in desperate need of “new” clothes or shoes, or whenever we needed anything really. And it was only when we desperately needed something. We did not shop for ‘fun’ or because we were ‘bored’, or because we ‘liked’ something. If something was purchased, it’s because it was truly needed.

I remember giving her SUCH a hard time about this, I was mortified that someone who knew me, would see me heading into a thrift store. Like I was some kind of “special celebrity” or born with a silver spoon in my mouth. Neither which are even close to being a true statement. My thoughts at the time were, Why couldn’t I have what everyone else had? Why did I have to wear clothes that someone else already owned and wore and didn’t want anymore! Why was life so “unfair”!? Ugh.

I would give her such a hard time about it, i’d have such a snotty attitude and *wish* for new clothes and all the ‘cool stuff’ that all the ‘cool kids’ had. Because then i’d be worthy, and cool, and pretty, and the other kids would like me, right? I could be in with the “in” crowd, and wouldn’t be made fun of for the clothes I wore, for my generic shoes, for being the “new kid” (we moved a lot) and for having a lack of cool stuff like a “swatch” watch and the like…

80’s “Swatch Watches”

Ugh. I regret ever giving my mom a hard time about stupid stuff like that. I’m pretty ashamed of it now honestly and yes, I was young & stupid & heading into my early teens without realizing that being cool generally costs money. Disposable money at that!

Fast forward many, many years, *wink* and my “go to” shopping stores of choice are the local thrift shops we have here. We are lucky & have 2 to choose from! Both of which we’ve found gems from! And the best part is that my youngest absolutely LOVES thrift shopping, like it’s her favourite thing to do! Her big, cool, new winter jacket this year we scored in *as new* condition at the “Salvation Army” thrift store for $12.00! When she found it online they retail for over $200!

When my last iron died (photographed behind my daughter) I decided that I was SO done paying good money on irons that were all just gonna die on my anyway. I found a “Black & Decker” iron for $3.00 at the thrift store and it’s fabulous! When it dies on me, it’s only three bucks, i’ll use it until it gives up the ghost, no love lost & i’ll find another one at the thrift shop when it’s time!

Another of her favourite finds is this gorgeous plaid dress.. it’s soo well made and fits her to absolute perfection! It’s fully lined and the quality & workmanship is just amazing… again, this brand of dress (the designer escapes me) retails for $150-200+ a dress) and we found this one for $1.00!

Yesterday after my daughter’s Orthodontist appointment we popped into the thrift shop before it closed she found a new pair of Silver Jeans for $5.00 (yay!) (Silver jeans retail for $100+) and I found a handful of baby clothes for my oldest daughters new little one arriving in the spring! Everything is in excellent condition with no stains, tears, etc… and honestly, when babies are that young they only wear things a handful of times and outgrow them!

Sleepers in excellent condition, Carter’s brand for first two, last one is that superhero brand.. lol! $.75/each.

Sweet little ‘dino’ undershirt… $.75

Baby GAP cargo pants, $2.00

Soo sweet & tiny!

Then… look at what my targeted ads on FB were last night… *eye roll* lol!

Compare now what FB was showing me last night… 5 sleepers for $70.00!!

I’ve been buying used for a while now, but looking back I could have saved soo much money throughout the years by choosing to buy ‘gently used’ and i’m kicking myself for not learning this fact much earlier in my lifetime! But, better late than never right?

Thrifting is one way we save money whenever possible. Now like most others, we don’t buy *everything* used, some things are just off limits, but I do try to buy what we can used. It’s better for our budget, better for the environment & if my kids outgrow stuff or it gets stained or ruined somehow, i’m not upset that I dropped $$$ on whatever item it was!

Do you thrift shop or prefer to only buy new? If you thrift, what has been your best or favourite find?

(Almost) Wordless Wednesday…

A peek into my day…

Mmm.. fresh coffee!

Keeping my chair warm.

My Supervisor.

My work today.

Chester.

I bet this house was gorgeous back in its glory days…

My ‘baby’ at the orthodontist…

Yes, it’s a real dog… lol!

Boats at the harbour.

Looking across to Sydney.

Our local gang.

“Where’s our snacks!?”

Time to relax…

2023 Reads!

As per my 2nd 2023 goal I had my husband carry up my bin of books (which weighs a gazillion lbs I swear, I could barely lift up a single stack of these books.. lol!) so I could dig through this bin of goodness & see what i’ll be reading this year!

I haven’t taken a peek in this bin since we moved to Cape Breton Island last January, so truly it was a surprise to me! And I was very pleasantly surprised, there are so many good books in here, i’m excited to dig in!

In all there are 52 books, which kind of makes me feel like the universe is trying to tell me something, however, no, I highly doubt that I will be reading a book a week. Some of these books are as heavy & chonky as my Walter is…

~Walter~

Without further ado, let’s take a peek & see what i’ve collected!

The Paris Library, The Honey Bus, Mr.Darcy Takes a Wife, The Tides of Time, The Nightingale, The Great Alone, Where White Horses Gallop, The Birth House, I Know This Much is True, Cutting for Stone, Saving Fish from Drowning, The Best of Me, Light Between the Oceans.

The Gifts of Imperfection, The Mermaid Chair, After You, Me Before You, The Girl You Left Behind, The Lake House, The Distant Hours, Shanghai Girls, All the Light We Cannot See, Stones from the River, Dreams of Joy, Lady Almina & the real Downton Abbey, Lady Catherine & the real Downton Abbey, Secret Daughter.

The Goldfinch, Führer, Folk & Fatherland, The Forgotten Garden, The Secret Keeper, Unbroken, What Alice Forgot, Sold on a Monday, Teatime for the Firefly, Crazy Rich Asians, Rich People Problems, Crazy Rich Girlfriend, Bridget Jones The Edge of Reason, Bridget Jones Mad About the Boy.

CEO of Everything, The Black Donnellys, Then Again, The Hours, Geisha A Life, The Subtle Art of not Giving a F*ck, Dewey, Under the Tuscan Sun, The Lucky One, Shopping, Seduction & Mr. Selfridge, The Life Changing Magic of not Giving a F*ck, Bridget Jones’s Diary.

In all 11 of these I purchased new at retail, and the rest were picked up from thrift shops & library sales. A few were picked up after watching them on TV (Mr.Selfridge was a tv series I enjoyed a few years back!) Goldfinch from the movie, which in fact, I didn’t even get around to seeing, but I thought it looked good! lol! Crazy Rich Asians I loved the movie and have watched it a couple times, so bought the series…

Let me see.. what else do we have. Unbroken, that movie was brutal, but soo good! The book should be even better! Diane Keaton, i’ve always loved her spunk & personality! And just a bunch of random books that I either love the author, or they simply “looked good”.

Führer, Folk & Fathrland I remember purchasing directly from the Author at an arts sale in London, Ont. He was quite interesting to speak with and to be honest, how often do you hear the “other side of the story”. His father was a German soldier in WW2, and I thought it would be a fascinating read. I have read many, many books about WW2 and generally they are never from the German side. Anyway, he sold me on his book & was such a kind soul, that i’m excited to finally read his story!

I also found myself a cute little magnetic bookmark which means I can stop using random receipts… lol!

“You Make My Heart Smile”

Now… my only problem is, which book do I start with!?

What do you think? Do you see any books here that you’ve read & loved, or any on your “to read” list?

Do you buy new books? Used books? Or strictly use the library?