3 Goals for 2023!

I’m not the type to make “New Year’s Resolutions”, there will be no “new me”, I will not be turning into some magnificent & completely different person. What you see, is what you get. *wink*

However, I do have a handful of meaningful goals that i’ll be trying to achieve!

Financial Goal #1: Save double our mortgage payments to put down as a lump sum payment on our mortgage in January 2024.

We purchased our home almost one year ago. Actually, in a little under 3 weeks, it’ll be exactly a year since we closed! Because i’m late 40’s, and my husband is early 50’s, I feel that we’re “late to the house buying game”, and I know people buy homes at all ages, but all the same, that’s how I feel.

My husband & I have a goal to pay off our mortgage in less than half of our term, ideally before he retires! So we are aiming to save the same amount that we pay on our mortgage each year. Thus, doubling our mortgage payments and paying that on a lump sum at the end of each year.

We managed to save *almost* enough this year, even with sinking thousands & thousands into upgrades & improvements into our home since we purchased it. Since we were *so close* to reaching our goal, my grandma gifted us enough to reach our goal for the year!! So, we have our first lump sum sitting in the bank, waiting for the first year to be up so we can slap that cash down on our mortgage!!

Personal Goal #2: Read my collection of paper books!!

I have a rubbermaid bin FULL of books which i’ve purchased, mostly used at thrift stores and library sales, but a few new ones as well. When we moved here I promised myself that i’d read them and not just let them ‘sit’. Well, they’ve sat since January, so it’s time to make good on that promise!

I’ve cancelled my Kindle Unlimited subscription until further notice and will not be buying any books this year, not new, not used. Between the ones sitting in my bin & on my Kindle, and my amazing library here, i’m set! I will drag that bin upstairs and share what i’ll be reading this year, I remember some of them, but definitely not all, so it’ll be a surprised for you & me! I hope they’re good ones! lol!

Community Goal #3: Donate food/pantry items to the food bank every month.

I won’t commit to a certain dollar amount as funds are tight for us, but I will be aiming to donate some food/pantry items once a month. I feel it’s important to give what you can, even if it’s only one item that you’re able to give, it’s still something! I should make a date for this goal, perhaps at the beginning of each month, and i’ll share what we’re able to donate each month. I’m sure some months it’ll be more, some months less. And that’s ok!

Within the first week sounds good to me, and I can repeat it in my phone calendar so I don’t forget, which means, I need to figure out my first donation ASAP!

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These are the main things which have been placed on my heart, so they will be my focus for the year! I’m not going to overload myself or make impossible goals that stress me out for the year ahead… I feel that these are achievable goals and i’m excited for the year ahead!

Thriving simply, that is my goal.

Are you making, or have you made any goals/resolutions for the year ahead? If so please share!

Happy New Year! 2023!!

Out with the old, and in with the new! Except I don’t really want anything ‘new’! I love my minimalist type home, I find having a tidy, clutter free home gives me the peace & calmness I desire in my life. It gives me a clear mind & spirit. It also makes it very easy to keep the house clean, which is a huge bonus, because who wants to spend hours & hours cleaning their house!? Not I!

I’m going to start the year off with a little self-challenge; to gather a minimum of 100 items to either donate or toss, whichever is the more suitable option within the next week! Between myself, my husband and our daughters, we should be able to do this!

My plan is to go through every room of the house to see what we don’t use, don’t need or can do without! I tend to not keep duplicates and have long stopped “shopping for fun” at this point in my life for a few reasons. Firstly, our finances don’t allow for it and secondly, i’d rather enjoy & use up what we already own and have purchased. Kind of like the Velveteen Rabbit, I want my belongings to be well loved & well used!

Do you care to join me in this decluttering challenge?

It doesn’t have to be 100 items, nor does it have to be within a weeks time, just challenge yourself to something which is reasonable and achievable! I’ll update with my results next Sunday!

Leave a comment if you’ll be joining me, i’m excited to see what we can do!

New Year’s eve!

Well, we made it! It’s been a year with many ups & downs, for all of us i’m sure! At the same time it’s a nice time to reflect on the year behind us and count our blessings. Which are many!

Let’s take a look back & count our blessings shall we?

A year ago we had been evicted from our current home as our landlord had decided she was going to move back into the house rather than find somewhere else to live, we were told to be on our merry way! We had boxes & boxes packed and lined along the dining room, the upstairs hallway, etc… yet, we had no place to live yet. To say it was a stressful time would be an understatement. London was in housing crisis, houses were selling like hotcakes (and WELL above what we qualified for) and rentals were obscenely priced. For the size of a home we would have needed, we were looking at almost $3K, then pile bills on top of that… well, there is no way on God’s green earth we could afford anything even close to that!

We decided to take a leap of faith and buy a house, our very first house at that!! I have always been a ‘saver’ and good with money, so we applied to be prequalified for a mortgage and started to look! London wasn’t really on our radar, the homes we could get were not areas in which i’d not have been happy. So we started looking in Nova Scotia, on Cape Breton Island to be exact. Some of you may remember we lived in Cape Breton a few years back for a short stint, but the timing just wasn’t right, it wasn’t meant to be at that time.

This time, it was… we found a perfect home for us. In fact, it’s a house we used to walk by and I had always envied the huge wrap around deck it had, and would tell my kids, “someday i’m going to have a deck like that!”. Little did I know that I had planted a seed…

The house came up for sale, we made an offer and it was accepted! We were about to move (drive) 2200km+ across Canada in January with our youngest two girls & two very active cats. lol! We were able to put down a 20% cash deposit on our new home, and have funds left to do some upgrades we wanted to! Something funny here: I had told my bestie out here, “I will NEVER move in the winter ever again!” *eek* Umm… never say never. lol!

That has been the biggest change in our lives this year…

Other blessings… my daughter was married this September here on Cape Breton Island & i’m excited to share that they are expanding their family with a new little one! Look at my beautiful girl and her handsome husband! It was such a beautiful wedding on my best friends amazing property overlooking the ocean and mountains!

Then one of my best friends from London packed up her family and drove out here to see me and hang out in September as well! She told me “we’ll visit you, don’t worry!” when I told her we were moving away! The funny thing is, people say that, but she meant it and it meant so much to me that they spent their vacation driving out here to visit me on the very tip of Cape Breton Island with their 3 very young children!! Gives me warm fuzzies just thinking about it!

These are some of the highlights of my year…

Not everything has been wonderful this year though, we lost my father-in-law a few weeks ago and just lost my uncle-in-law (my father-in-laws brother) a couple nights ago. This hurts my heart… It has also been hard being away from my two oldest children, I feel so much guilt for moving away sometimes and not being closer for them if they “need” me, but I realize that sometimes life doesn’t ‘work out’ the way you thought it would.

In the end though, we must look at the good and never let the bad overshadow all the goodness in our lives!

Tell me, what has been the best thing that happened to you this year? Please leave a comment, i’d love to read it!

Have a wonderful & safe New Year’s Eve!!